最近，《极限挑战》第三季迎来了收官之作，更邀请到了韩雪做嘉宾，一出场那通身的气派就震住了所有的人。
不愧为知性优雅的代名词，韩雪的气质果然是娱乐圈数一数二的。
低调的韩雪，很少上综艺，没想到一上综艺就圈了无数的粉，最最令人肃然起敬的是她对王迅的态度，王迅在完成任务时，意外的被喷上了奶油，韩雪不仅递上纸巾，上楼时还提醒松鼠别忘记戴眼镜。在王迅被喷了奶油，向黄渤索求拥抱未果时，韩雪化解了尴尬，安慰了抱了满身奶油的王迅。
韩雪不仅送上了“奶油拥抱”，还发了一个微博安慰王迅，亲切地叫他迅哥，对不住了，给你一个奶油拥抱。
今天给大家分享一段韩雪在TEDxSuzhou的英文演讲视频，在这段长达15分钟的演讲中，她分享了自己工作、生活中的经历，告诉大家，如何做一个积极的悲观主义者（being a positive pessimist），如何面对生活，迎接挑战。
(英文原文文本)
Good afternoon everyone.
First let me share a piece of music with you.I know it's terrible, because I played.And i'm sorry it's not the worst one.I still got something to show you.Don't laught, it's an entire story.If you really want to understand what it is talking about？You can check my weibo later.This picture I painted last year.I have another one to show you, this is much better.This picture I painted, twenty years ago.
So I know you might have a question.How it is getting worse?And I also understand that most of your conclusion must be:out of imagination.
But how it happened.I think it is because I become an adult.Since we became adults.We started being afraid of making mistakes.We choose to be the best or nothing. So, we do not dare to try any mistakes.It seems that we trapped ourselves in the overprotective world.I sense them we started to lose a lot of, ability, like imagination, and creativity.
What is the strategy? For me I have a special one.It's been a positive, pessimistic.Let me explain the concept first.To be a pessimist means, you get low, expectation to yourself.And you prepared to lose.And what about being positive.It is easy to understand the means you make best effort on, a reason.But if you combine this concept together.It seems that a paradox.Yes I think so, but I hope so think it is the way the world is it born to be.
And it really works in the reality.We can always find something around us.They have totally opposite sizes two sides.And they combined together, and, work well together.
So how to be a positive, pessimist.Let me share some experience with you.I know i'm not old enough to tell stories.By these stories really meant to me.
The first one back to 2012,It's the first time I become a tv series producer.But as you know.I am, on the actress and singer.Work as a producer was totally unfamiliar for me.So you remember first I have to be, to pessimist.So I had to imagine, what will be the worst, consequence.I think that was the result must be no one, would buy it.And I will lose both, time and money.And the whole investment equal to the, revenue, I earned by, acting for the past few years.
And what about the whole market.You know in China, only 20% of the tv series, can finally, saddam, brown broadcast on tv.What about the rest 80%？In the past, they just change into, a pipe or of tapes.And now even worse, we just only datas left.
So I asked myself several times ,Can you really accept the worst, consequences?I think yes, at least, I could try, so I started shooting.Remember, next step, I have to be positive.Because I am a huge digital fan,I decided to use some high technique to my tv series.So I focused on 4k resolution.What 4k is?
Let me explain.Usually, you see a film on the screen in the movie theater the size is 2k.What 4k means is four times larger than 2k.And also means 50mb per frame.You might still be a little bit confused.It's okay don't worry, you just have to remember, it was a Huge obstacle.
In front of all the tv series a group in china.Because before us, only a few groups try to 4k Resolution.They input 4k, but no one really tried to output 4k productions.Because it was really hard.
Only director zhang yimou was trying in his film, Coming Home, for the first time.And when we finished the shooting work when we entered The post production work,the real nightmare came.I still remember we want to output a five-minute trail for beijing tv festival.But after a whole day's working until the computer crashed, we just got 50 seconds trails.
I was crazy, what can I do ?This is a 30 episodes tv series.I just got 50 seconds, so I asked Our counselor, because at that time,our technical support was RED,Which is the biggest Digital camera Company, in america.Their feedback was, they use Hp base station in america.But we didn't have any hp base station in china.it was too expensive, we can not even afford that.
So we decided to assemble out black apple and we tried the outcome mode from dozens of combinations.After six months work we succeed.My tv series the ladies, Became the first tv series Which output real 4k a resolution production.And I succeeded in selling it And with a very good performance, on tv.
So after this experience,I learned, don't be afraid to take a huge challenges.You can prepared to lose, but conquer it with grit.
The next story happened last year,I took an invitation from BEAR GRYLLS is there anyone know that? If you know that you might thought I was crazy.
Yes, this man who stands on the top of the food chain.He almost eat everything.You might think I was crazy, yeah before that I did not, physical activities, I have very bad body condition.I was afraid of a lot of things, I was afraid of height and insects.I didn't even dare to take a roller coaster.
But I almost took this invitation immediately.Because I truly understand if I lost this chance.I would never earn it back in the rest of my life.So I decided to take the adventure.During the twenty days adventure, I caught rats,i caught mice, I ate insects.But I didn't drink the urine.
And I almost cried every day in the first half journey.And the most impressive moment, was the day before the last day.I still remember that day, our mission was to across a canyon just through a rope hanging between two cliffs.You can see from the picture, but you can't see the width it's very long.And, the, standard posture is leaning your whole body on to the rope.And use one of your legs backside to hookup the rope with the ankle.I'm pull yourself from side to the other.
When it was my turn, BEAR said,Cecilia, are you really sure you want to try that?If you want to quit you can quit now because I know you can't make balance.You can't use your left arm.Because I was not lucky before that mission, about two days ago.
I hurt my left arm, my nerves system got injured.And my little finger kept shaking for a whole day, I can't even control that.I barely can not use my left arm.So as a pessimist I have to imagine the worst consequence.Because, it was a reality show.You know, reality show is very dangerous if you can't perform 100% well.Sometimes it means you will face savage criticism on line later.And I might fall down again, or I hurt my right arm as well.
So I have been thinking about, should I really have to try that?I think at least I won't die.So what?I decided to take that mission.But I really lean my body onto that rope.It was far more, scary than I thought.You can see from the picture because my posture as My team member said my posture was so ugly.Because she said I was just like dead caterpillar hanging there.
I just kept my half body on one side, I left the rest part on the other side.And it was not the worst one.The worst was because my arm could not hold my upper body and my head.So I could not face up I could not see the end.
So what could I do?I know that I have to think positive, I also know that sometimes been positive doesn't mean you just speak out some propagandas.You have to do something for real.But at that moment, the only thing I could see was a rock just three meters ahead nothing else.
So I decided to set small targets, so I focus on that rock.There is something magical happens, when I really concentrated to that rock.I forgot about the height, I forgot about keeping balance.I even forget about the end.I just remembered to focus on that, and pull myself.
Then I started seeking more tigers in front of me.And any tiny objects, became, glittering image in front of me.After child several times, I realized that I was so close to the end.And finally, I succeed.
So after that experience, I learned there is no shame to be a loser.You just need to set small targets, and devote yourself. So these stories which happened to me, shaped me either positive pessimist.
And until today I know that I am still a bad piano player,a bad painter.And not a very successful producer.But I love to be a positive pessimist.And I know nothing can stop me being better.
Thank you.
好莱坞明星妮可·基德曼说过这样的话：“作为妻子和母亲的角色始终是我最钟情的。”靠着强大的背景和不菲的身家，韩雪本可以选择“名媛”的定位，过着养尊处优或者相夫教子的闲逸生活,但她却偏要为了自己的梦想，努力地开疆拓土，勇敢试错。不画地为牢，不坐享其成，当演员，出专辑，做公益......有个著名的制片人说过，“女制片人真不是人干的活”,但她仍不惧风险，投身其中。她用自己的行动告诉人们，人生不是用来固守和拘泥的，而来用来打破和拓宽的；生而有涯，世事无常，悲观主义固然是命运的底色，但仍无法阻挡我们以积极乐观的心态去迎接它的挑战与刁难：正所谓自弃者扶不起，自强者打不倒。
不剑走偏锋，不热衷炒作，低调时能踏实做事，高调时亦能惊艳于世。全程十五分钟落落大方、流畅自如的英文演讲，思辨性极强的哲学理念，幽默风趣的生活态度，让人们看到了一个底蕴深厚，霸气十足的韩雪，她俨然是一股清流，让我们见识到，这个世界，在浮躁喧嚣之外，自有它不被染指的光风霁月。
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